I usually bake a special dessert on this day and yesterday I chose to make a French Apple Pie which has apples and raisins and is spiced with cinnamon, allspice, ginger, and nutmeg. Once baked I spread a vanilla glaze over the top which made the pie look like snow covered hills.
My ceremony is a simple one that includes various readings and incantations aimed at strengthening my connection with Spirit. I usually play soft Celtic music, decorate my alter with fresh flowers or leaves, and I light many candles and incense. After the readings there is a meditation and perhaps a divination. Then sacred magick is performed (that's the only part of the ceremony that is secret). At the end of the ceremony a toast of sparkling juice or cider is made to the God/Goddess as well as an offering of small cookies. This is referred to "cakes and ale" and it's important to partake of the refreshment as lots of energy is expended. These rituals that I perform are really no different than the connection that others would find by going to their own houses of worship on a holiday. The only difference is that I make up the rules and readings according to what feels right for me. Oh, and there is usually a celebratory dessert after the ceremony is completed. The pie served with ice-cream was just divine!